Who is the bigger idiot...

...the village idiot or the one kidnapped by the village idiot? (Zee, Antz)

Yesterday, we delved into the mental side effects of narcotics associated with relieving cancer pain. By the sound of numerous effects, an air of irresponsibility appeared. I need to clear the air.

What are you doing, doctor?

Pain relief. You will note the previous fragment actually has a period after it.

The physical pain associated with cancer and cancer treatment is phenomenal. In order to cope with the pain, narcotics are a way of life, despite the side effects. In the doctor's (and often the patient's) mind, relieving the pain is worth the side effects.

Are you serious?

First, do no harm. -Hippocrates

Every doctor takes the oath. Human compassion demands to relieve suffering wherever it is found.

Pain is the body's natural receptor for bad behavior. -Ann Marie Dwyer, paraphrased from Taming the Terrible Twos: A Parents' Survival Guide

Bad behavior is not always defined as the patient's bad behavior. Sometimes, it is the body acting badly. Other times, it is the body acting badly because of the patient's having acted badly.

What choice is there?

Let me posit a scenario for you:

You go to the medical doctor with a headache. That small pain is what triggered your visit, since his job is to relieve pain.

He gives you a pain reliever to alleviate your suffering right now, but orders tests.

When the results come back, he tells you he knows there is a tumor growing in your head. Right now, you feel very little pain, but if only the pain is treated, you will lose all motor function within weeks. No walking. No writing. No talking. No eating. No caring for yourself or others.

He stands there and looks at you waiting for your question: What should I do? In his mind, he knows he needs to see other patients and has a golf game at 4:00 o'clock. He instinctively writes a prescription for narcotic pain control while he waits. His job is to relieve pain. You have options.

One from Column A and up to Two from Column B

Column A contains:

1. Nothing: Pain will increase, and death is imminent. (This is a full meal and comes with no condiments from Column B.)
2. Surgery: Absolutely no guarantee of cure; carries a chance of death in and of itself.
3. Dietary therapy: To reduce the intake of free radicals, increase the vitamin intake and boost the body's immune system to fight the tumor.

Column B

1. Radiation: Not a cure, but a stop gap to reduce tumor size and therefore pain and suffering.
2. Chemotherapy: Not a cure, but weighing the side effects against death...
3. Nothing. (This dessert ends in death and is not accompanied by anything else in Column B.)

All dishes served with a bowl of narcotics and vitamins to combat the side effects of the meal.

I'm not that hungry.

Before you say that out loud, consider the finality of death. What would you endure not to die?

Next, we will look into what you need to know before you decide how hungry you really are.

Trying each day,
Ann Marie

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